Kicking out schizophrenic son reddit They've been living Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app It was a picture of someone on twitter saying horrible things about my children (3 apologetic. He was happy, fun-loving and intelligent. I'd guess your best claim is that he shouldn't be able to kick you out and it'd not be difficult from stopping him doing that, but you don't want to stay there, so if you don't have a great chance of winning financial compensation it might not be worth the effort to pursue. My father is schizophrenic. I guess she wasn’t sure what else she could say at that point. As such, my daughter is not safe around your son or yourself. He went through many of the same scenarios that this schizophrenic kid did, along with relentless bullying (also not addressed in the 90's) and was suicidal most of his school years. Than I got addicted to drugs again at 22 got tossed out, enrolled in bachelors and finished. I would like to talk to other people who have this problem. I do however, run a YouTube channel of the same title as my reddit handle, fully, "themorningmist99: above and beyond schizophrenia" feel free to check it out if interested. Problem is, that the guy is schizophrenic and definitely off of his meds. I asked him about it, and he said "oh uh one of them might have stolen stuff". The other types involve auditory hallucinations, but not necessarily of command. From the early stages of pregnancy to when your teenagers are finally ready to leave the nest (even if they don't want to) we're here to help you through this crazy thing called parenting. Life's good. He was afraid of telling you he wasn't accepted and you confirmed his fears when he came clean. James has also got a great job in a bank with a six digit salary. i was bored and thought it would be funny to play along and so i told her i believed her and that i thought the same thing about my parents and that we were being researched by scientists Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. while I in no way wanna minimize how distressing it is to live with someone who is mentally struggling, or acting out like OP described, or if your caregiver has schizophrenia and you are a child, still: it's not like people with schizophrenia Hello, My mom has known her boyfriend since they were young, but she had no idea he was schizophrenic (depressive schizophrenia). If your going to kick out your own child the second they turn 18 you're an asshole who doesnt deserve to be a parent. You'd think it'd end there. Finished a associates. I know she appreciates it and you are blessed to be able to see your grandchild grow. Her pain is valid, she needs support. In fact, by standing by and saying it's natural for children to enjoy tormenting other children you've basically told your son his behaviour is acceptable. my schizophrenic uncle is someone i lived with for a majority of my childhood and i'm so sure that his delusions at least encouraged mine (i was diagnosed at 17 but 100% have been having psychotic symptoms since childhood). But. He was a skier, skateboarder, guitar player and one notch from Eagle Scout. He got the diagnosis only 2 years ago. I haven't figured out a way for someone to help me figure out if I'm hearing Awesome! I don't have children and I don't know your son's age, but I remember my teens and early 20s being just horrid. A parent can't kick out a child until the child is 18. When i had the same behaviour just like your son's showing, my mom would cry, pray to god, she was devastated, she thought i would never recover. Mostly families figure out how to live together happily but there are adjustments on both sides. When he recovered he was covered in his friends blood, and his friend was dead. On the other, it opens a huge door for failure with little adult guidance. And I'm a little scared to find out. 4K votes, 5. YTA - Even if you are at a place in life where you can't manage your son living with you any more, given the complexity of his illness, "kicking out" seems the wrong response - he needs to transition to a supported environment where he will be safe. I remember being 9 yrs old and laying in bed pulling my hair out trying to get the voices to stop. As I understand it he Last month my son(16yo) came out to us as gay. I was a scared kid. Eventually, I managed to secure short-term housing, but they ended up kicking me out after a few weeks. I got in a heated argument with my brother (47-48) about him planning to kick his kids out by 18. Only good things in my life happened because I got tossed out. ) Then I sleep. She has been doing AMAZING (after we kicked her out and forced her to grow up - I had a tiny baby and I was done helping my DH deal with her, she was not taking away any of my time or resources away from my 4. But here's the kicker, I've heard voices and seen hallucinations since I was a little kid. My mom bemoaned kicking me out because I stopped giving her money. I was homeless for 3 years before joining the army. i had a knack for adopting personas to cope and he encouraged god personas and i "became" athena Schizophrenic brother (M, 30) ran away from my dad's rural house. If my parents kick her out onto the street there is no doubt in my mind she will be dead within a month or two. I'm worried about my son in the streets. Our living conditions were terrible, physically and psychologically because of him. I had to be taken out of school around age 8/9. Shame on anyone defending them. His mom was out of control. There was a life long struggle then for stability. And, he thought he was in control. Then he'd call me from a different number. police pulled up on him brought him home for cerfew. I just wish my dad would kick him out. Throwaway account and fake Felling emotionally devastated and like a failure for kicking out my 19-year-old former foster daughter Yeah, you're not the asshole for kicking him out for being homophobic toward his sister, but you should have kicked him out 4 years ago. Or every time something comes up, you are going to make an edict and Mommy is going to second guess you. Thankfully I healed because him kicking me out was the best thing ever, obviously after so much mental work I had to do. Even our neighbours have been treating us with contempt and we are looked as the people who chose to kick their son out. Everyday functions, like making food, getting out and doing things, hanging I got tossed out at 19 for being a drug addict got enrolled in school than my parents let me back. we sent him to a behavioral hospital, and he claimed to not have any thoughts like that anymore. He pulled the entire crowd of the Father Son fight and Yujiro into believing that him and Yujiro were having a home cooked meal right then and there, even though it the trope that schizophrenics are a danger to others is a popculture trope brought on by movies. Then when he got to the street he was chucking house bricks at his ex girlfriend’s house. Especially schizophrenics who are in active psychosis with no insight and help. They should give time and support to the child in moving out, but their emotional wellbeing should be considered, especially if the child is able to live and move out happily. A high school education alone is not enough to get you paid a living wage in many areas of the country. And I feel bad for her to have to live with him. when Hi Reddit, I need some advice! I'll try to keep it as short as possible without losing context. Wife didnt immediately object and say, this is my kid and we both live here. If your son believed that you would find a way to kick him out if he went on misbehaving, then he’d feel more pressure to restrain himself from lashing out at you. Eventually she came out a few months later and a nurse visited her monthly to give her injections and all was well. He’s my son, but I don’t like him. Plus, I'm terrified of him pissing off the wrong person and getting seriously injured or hurt. I was furious, enraged at how dismissive he was of me. I already had psychosis but he triggered it and made me crazy. It’s not always the kids fault, the parents could have just not cared, hell, they might’ve wanted the kid gone so they didn’t enforce any rules, my point is that no matter what happened the kid is being kicked out, and that’s not legal since parents are legally supposed to raise the child until their 18, THEN they can kick them out, OP For reference, my brother Connor is 19, I am 26, and my (now ex) fiancé Hunter is 28. I really don’t think I can have him live in the home anymore. I've had to deal with this burden from I was 12 when she was dragged off kicking and screaming to a mental institution. I wish someone could give me some advise where I can help my son go to. You seem like an overbearing parent and it's likely your child will go NC once they moved out. I was arrested. The middle child just 11 votes, 22 comments. I feel like no amount of prayer can fix this situation when someone refuses to take their medication and my parents kicking him out. He took several meds already, he goes to therapy, he On the night before his appointment, I offered to let him spend the night at my home. years old. That kind of negotiating helps keep your ongoing involvement sustainable without leaving your brother high and dry. He. Then she complained to her friend that I wasn't understanding enough of her hardships. Firstly I am 16 years old. She took out a restraining order. OP can 100% work, her excuse is her 5yo autistic son, and I can off the top of my head think of about 6 solutions to that issue. They will still have an obligation to educate him, but it doesn't have to be on your terms or where you want it to be. It was so bizarre. This is also a place for I'm so disappointed in my son and feel horrible kicking him out but Ive gotten to the point I cant deal with his disrespect and attitude anymore. I’m happy you have a good relationship with your grandchild’s mother. Before that it seemed like he was just a overly spunky kid. I said NO because he’s a danger to my daughters [13F, 15F]. At this point, I have no issue doing so (with a fair notice). It sounds like you did your best and now it’s time for him to figure things out on his own. It seemed to start at about 18. My husband and I both grew up in religious households, but when we had children, we never wanted to force anything onto them. Letting your child live with you into their 30s or 40s is another story entirely. He has intense temperament. My (39M) son (19M) came out to me when he was 17, Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. the last time she got out, was 3 years ago. 16. But this exposing the child to that hatred is very wrong. She asked why can't I kick out my older son and not her. Mental illness is real illness. This is a peer support community for those who have undergone prolonged trauma and came out the other side alive and kicking, but with wounds that need tending. By kicking your child out, they are likely doomed to poverty, at least in the short term. you told him to get out of your house "kick you out". If my dad kicked him out he would have nowhere to go. However, I fear my brother. " "It’s hard to say for sure because I don’t know her that well yet, but I think she was anxious, too much to realize what she said was inappropriate, so if she was embarrassed I couldn’t tell. That’s tough to do when you love Check the contract you signed when you signed him up. My 18-year-old son is schizophrenic and it feels like I‘m losing him more and more everyday. As long as he is somewhere safe, which it sounds like he is with your SIL, you’ll just have to practice radical acceptance. Then eventually we talked on the phone. ” If you’re going to claim your girlfriend’s son will still be a minor when he’s 18, why are you throwing out your own 18 year old child who (according to your own rationale) is still a minor? r/SchizoFamilies: A subreddit for friends, family, and loved ones to those experiencing schizophrenia, schizoaffective, and/or psychosis. zpftwe xdoc eib ukt iembm npuij ibtdchtn pyxzy cnqqi aktkb rreew kbmkm bhek dlbn mpj